A Girl’s Guide to Mr. Right
By Soudfa's blog team
Finding Mr. Right is not always an easy thing to do. Once you think you have found the right person, you may face many doubts: Doubts about if the one you are marrying is the right one to spend the rest of the lifetime with.
Therefore, during the engagement period, the girl has the opportunity to get to know her life partner and make sure she is going to marry the one she has always dreamed of.
Here are some steps to ensure that you are choosing the right man you want to be with in the future.
The first thing you should do when thinking about getting married is to understand your man. Think about his qualities and all the positive sides he has and then the negative ones afterwards and consider if you can live with both sides.
It is important to make sure, if he has a good relationship with his parents. You must value how he treats his parents by going to family reunions with him. Find out if he treats them with respect and if he has a good relationship with them. To ensure he has a good character and once you get married, he will treat you in the same way.
One of the important things you must consider, is if he has a decent and stable job. An honest hardworking man can take care of his family in the future. But most of the women prefers to be a man who has a stable job to ensure a feeling of security and financial independency.
You and the right person may have different goals, values and opinions in your character. Having different likes and opinions is okay, as long as the two of you agree to disagree. Although you may not always agree with one another, finding the right person does not mean that the two of you will not have difficulties or differences to deal with. However, finding the right person means somebody, which you can have a decent and meaningful conversation with. The way you handle disagreement with the right person, you will know that you can handle disagreement in the future and be able to work through issues that could hurt your relationship.
Evaluate your relationship; think about how you are together as a couple. Do you really have something in common? Do you have good times together?
Only the right person will bring happiness to your life and a sense of personal strength. You will know you are marrying the right person, when you feel support and encouragement about your own growth emotionally and intellectually.
Remember those are just a few of the steps for you to consider if you are making the right decision or not. Try in your engagement to ensure you are building a good relationship and if you are going to marry the right one. If you notice problematics or negative signs in your relationship, do not ignore them or delude yourself that the negative signs are not that important or someone will change. It does take more than love to have a successful relationship.