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What to Talk About When Chatting Online

By Soudfa's blog team

So, you broke the ice, now it’s time to heat up the conversation.

It can be hard to get a conversation going, when you’re probably nervous and don’t want to seem silly in your choice of topics. We understand how you feel, and we know the feeling perfectly well. But no sweat. We are here to assist you with few tips and pointers on what to chat about:

▫️It might seem obvious, but start with the beginning. Such as where you live and some details about what do you do for a living. Basic information that will help the other part build a picture about who you are.

▫️As you get passed these formalities, you can start to get a little deeper as to who you are as persons. Relations with friends and family, your interests and who knows you just might have something in common.

▫️Should luck favour you and you have several interests in common, the potential for endless conversation and discussions is certainly there. Should this not be the case, there’s also plenty of conversation material in differences. It’s not a deal breaker that you don’t necessarily like the same things.

▫️As you get to know each other better and better, you can start discussing the more serious aspects of life. What are your dreams and hopes for the future, do you want two kids or a whole football team and where would you like to build your family?

Kidding aside, it’s always an extremely good idea to get the more serious matters out on the table. After all, if it’s going to be the two of you for the rest of your lives, you need to agree on these important fundamental things. Your happiness relies on it.

In your endeavour for happiness there can be no compromise when it comes to the greater things in life. You are in charge of your own happiness.