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Topics to Chat About

By Soudfa's blog team

Are you tired of boring and meaningless messages in your chat?

Well, your new match is excited about your interests and it would be a lie, if you said you wasn't attracted too. But before you take any further steps, there’s some subjects that you will have to discuss, to find out if you are on the same page, and can have a bright future together. Communication is and always will be the key to every successful relationship. So, what topics exactly could be interesting to talk about?

Future ambitions

It is important to know the plans of the other person in order to get a clear idea of the future for both of you. Differences in future plans and life goals can turn out to be an obstacle in a relationship to come. For example, one of the you could wish to finish their studies, focus on their career or move to another country. All factors that needs to be addressed before you decide to spend the future together.

The meaning of marriage

The concept of marriage is one of the most important topics. You may have different views of marriage. Some see the marital relationship as the glamorous white dress and a big wedding while others see it as a duty in order to please the family and avoid pressure. Discussing and building a common ground will help you maintain a healthy and strong relationship in the future.

Qualities searched for in a partner

During the first stages of a relationship, don’t hesitate to ask what the other person looks for in a partner. This way you will have a clear idea as to whether or not you two should take things further. Of course, you shouldn’t make any rash decisions just because you do not fit the mold entirely.

Having kids

The discussion of this topic is very important, contrary to what some believe. The question depends on the situation of the two parties. The future partners should agree and choose the best solution for them. Some might see kids as an obstacle to any future projects while others consider them a logical step after marriage.

Family interactions

Marriage is not just a contract that brings just two people together but two families. Having a good insight as to what kind of a relationship your special someone has with his or her family and relatives is very important. Whether or not they are close with their mom and dad, and so on. Questions about family relations is a good way to determine how your special someone’s family has shaped them and whether or not their family structure is one that you would eventually be welcomed into.

Hobbies and free time

You will want to know what type of activities your special someone likes. Maybe, you two will have some interests or hobbies in common. If you do, it is a good sign that things can hopefully grow into something more. Also ask about habits, who knows, maybe you both have a bad one that you can work on fixing together.

Health problems

It might be an unimportant subject for those without any health issues. However, in case one faces a health problem, it’s very important to be honest and openly discuss any physical condition. Nobody will appreciate to be kept in the dark in case of such unexpected surprises. Express yourself, explain your situation and leave the choice to the person you’re interested in. You can’t make decisions for them.

Meeting people online instead of the traditional face-to-face interaction takes away a variety of intimidating factors. It’s like an imaginary wall you can stand behind while you grow more comfortable with another person. So seize this opportunity and discuss subjects that will bring you closer to a decision about your future together.